So I'm a little overprotective of my children. I'm admitting this openly not because I think there is anything wrong with it but because apparently I'm am being judged because of it.
So here's what I have to say about that because it's my blog and I can say whatever I want...
Yes I'm an overprotective control freak. A lot of the time I don't let my son go into the men's bathroom by himself, I randomly show up at is school unannounced to see what's going on, I have a ridiculously short list of people I let babysit, I don't let my kids listen to much on the radio besides KLTY, The Message, or my iPod, I make them clean their rooms, make their beds, & do their homework, I DVR all our "adult shows" and watch them after bedtime, my kids eat their vegetables, whole grains and are limited on sweets... I could go on and on... Why you ask am I such a "overly-strict" mom???
Because being my boys mom is the most important job God has ever given me. Me! The Lord entrusted me (with His help of course) to bring up God-fearing, amazing Christian men, and it's a lot on my shoulders. My husband loves saying "Anything worth doing is worth doing right" Well I don't want to just do it right, I want to honor my Lord by doing the best possible job I can do. Do I expect my children to never make mistakes? Absolutely not but I will pray for them and their future wives unceasingly and hopefully prayerfully they will grow in Him as they grow up.
I believe that every child deserves the right to be a child. So many times, children are growing up too fast. Being forced into life and all the pressure and stress it brings before they are ready or can handle it. This causes so many unnecessary traumas and emotional problems carrying over into adulthood & influencing their decisions throughout their lives.
I hope no one takes this as my claim at being a perfect mom. By no means am I anywhere near a perfect anything, except maybe a perfect sinner, I seem to have that one down. This is just my vent because like I said it's my blog and I can if I want :)